In a world where we are bombarded by platitudes, sometimes truth is the only compass we have. Simple musings and commentary on the world I'm navigating and the challenges it brings. Purely my thoughts on divorce, blended families, relationships, parenting, laughing and living.
Monday, February 21, 2011
More Shameless Idealists
http://watch.ctv.ca/shameless-idealists/featuring/shameless-idealists-ep-102-jacob-hoggard/
Living Donor Paired Exchange becomes first Canada-wide organ donation registry
Living Donor Paired Exchange becomes first Canada-wide organ donation registry
Shameless Idealists
There are so many celebrities out there who we know very little about, or who do very little to give back. Watching these clips just make me want to be a better person all the way around.
Did you know that Martin Sheen has been arrested over 60 times for civil disobedience?? That he started a union at a golf club as a 13 year old because he felt that they were not being treated right? Watch the link below, it's fascinating!
http://watch.ctv.ca/shameless-idealists/featuring/shameless-idealists-ep-107-martin-sheen/
What would you do?
I've been fortunate to never need a transplant but I know people who have, and who have gone through it.
Imagine a world where this kind of benevolence became common place? My children and I are organ doners but there is much that can be done without tragedy having to be part of it.
Would you give bone marrow? Part of your liver? A kidney? Make a blood donation?
I know I would, but I haven't taken steps to do so. I think it's time to change that. Next up...figuring out how to commit to the registries for these things. Will you do it too??
Pension Plan Conundrum
The great pension debate that is gaining momentum in Canada is focusing attention on the issue and bringing to light some of the stark realities of the retirement preparedness of Canadians.For example, it now is estimated that fewer than 40 per cent of Canadians are covered by a registered pension plan.
A recent report by the Certified General Accountants Association of Canada (CGAAG) concludes that “the ability of Canadians to maintain a financially-comfortable and healthy lifestyle after retirement has become one of the nation’s most vexing challenges.”
This is the most ludicrous advice I've ever heard. First of all we're living in a day and age when medical advances are creating longevity we've never seen before. Secondly, to state that they may want to spend money on travel while they are still healthy enough, insinuates that they would then have money left over for long term care or to live on should they not die early as their family history would suggest they MIGHT. While Family history is something to take into account, it isn't a guarantee of early death or long term illness.
The article then goes on to say:
Then there’s the issue of inflation.
Many pensions don’t have inflation protection. Inflation can erode your retirement income over the years. Most Canadians can expect to live in retirement for 30 to 35 years. An annual inflation rate of three per cent a year over 30 years can significantly reduce the buying power of a fixed pension at the end of that 30-year period.
Some options include taking your lump sum and rolling it into a personal RRSP or Locked-in Retirement Account (LIRA) and investing it in income generating investments such as GICs, bonds or blue chip dividend-yielding equities, which can grow over the years and provide some protection against inflation.
What is ridiculous about this information is that the average GIC earns 4% or less. If you don't factor in food or fuel, and the basic necessities of life, inflation has historically been around 4%. And RRSP's as well as LIRA's are heavily taxed often leaving those depending on them for their retirement income coming up short and having to find ways to supplement income, in what was anticipated as being their retirement. We've all met them, they're the ones who are once again in the work force using the phrase "I was bored in retirement so...." often and liberally.
To read the whole article go to: http://www.theglobeandmail.com/globe-investor/personal-finance/rrsp/what-should-you-do-with-your-pension-plan/article1903575/
Sunday, February 20, 2011
LA in a few short days....
Based upon their website info, this should be a wonderful adventure for us
Originally built in 1926, the Hotel Hollywood opened as the Oban Hotel in 1927. The hotel was the preferred choice of lodging for countless celebrities and entertainers. Former hotel guests include Marilyn Monroe, James Dean, Paul Newman, Fred McMurray, Orson Wells, Clark Gable, Glen Miller, Harry James and many more. Based on availability, you can request the room that Marilyn Monroe or James Dean stayed in.
The hotel was purchased and restored in 2005 by Westside Rentals (link). The company currently owns and operates the hotel and several others in the Los Angeles and Santa Monica area.
As documented in the book Hollywood Haunted and the National Directory of Haunted Places, several ghosts are said to roam the hotel stairs on a daily basis. The most famous ghost is said to be Charles Love, a prop master and stunt double for comedian Harry Langdon.
Hollywood is the same sun-blasted mecca for celebrity worshippers it’s always been, but trees now line the main drag, Hollywood Boulevard. At night, the club-crawlers come out to play, even though the A-list spots come and go at warp speed (see our Nightlife section for help). The Kodak Theatre hosts the Academy Awards and other splashy events, which means that several blocks of the Boulevard near Highland Avenue are perpetually closed off to traffic so watch out for those red carpet moments! There’s no great shopping (unless you’re looking for T-shirts, fridge magnets or platform sandals in men’s sizes), but lots of hip restaurants and bars. Hollywood is filled with ornate Mediterranean and Art Deco buildings, all gradually getting face-lifts. Thai Town and Little Armenia occupy the eastern end, with great ethnic markets and restaurants, like the famed Palms Thai, where a Thai Elvis-imitator performs nightly....as usual we will write about food and the the sights we see. I can hardly wait to start writing about our adventures...begining on March 3, 2011!
Bruno Mars Grenade PARODY! Key of Awesome #35!
HAHAHAHAHA! We were JUST talking about how funny the Bruno Mars song would be as a parody! <3 YouTube!
Friday, February 18, 2011
I still think it is a pyramid scheme...(Pyramid Scheme Cartoon by Pat Pe...
For all my peeps, you know who you are!!! Thank you Kyle for this!
Thursday, February 17, 2011
Financial literacy: Does the industry really want us to be educated?
If the financial industry is smart then the answer to this question is a resounding YES! In fact, I know a company out there that is actively looking to educate the public on the basics of how money works and does it all at no charge or obligation to the consumer.
And if you want to know or be connected with someone who can help YOU no matter what your financial situation is, message me and I'll connect you. Financial education is out there, and it is available free of charge.
Financial education saved my life and is giving my kids a future. Everyone should learn where they COULD be if they only knew what was possible.
Average Canadian family's debt hits $100,000
This article is horrifying in it's stark reality. The truly frightening part is that this article really just looks at loans and credit card debt. To know that the majority of families are facing retirement below the poverty line, or worse becoming McSenior's as their only way of surviving is utterly horrifying.
Through hard work, focus and good advice, I've spent the last year of my life working out of the hole of bad debt and for the first time in my life I have savings.
If you know people who are facing this reality and want to know how I did it, have them call me or email! I'm happy to pass on what I've learned!
Wednesday, February 16, 2011
My baby is growing up...
Justin: "Mummy, I have a girlfriend."
Mummy: "oh do you?"
Justin: "yes, her name is Ava."
Mummy: "Do you hug her?"
Justin: "yes."
Mummy: "Do you hold her hand?"
Justin: "yes."
Mummy: (growing a little concerned) "uhhhh, do you give her kisses?"
Justin: "EWWWWWW NO!"
Small pause, falls out of bed, tears ensue.
Mummy: (while cuddling sniffly boy) "Are you going to marry Ava?"
Justin: "No."
Mummy: "Is she still your girlfriend?"
Justin: "No."
Mummy: "Did you break up with her without telling her?"
Justin: "yes."
Mummy: "Never do that Squidge."
Justin: "why?"
Mummy: "It's rude."
Justin: Shrugs shoulders and says "meh."
He turned 6 today...Happy Birthday Justin. :)
Canadians don't believe they can be millionaires: survey
This piece in yesterday's StarPhoenix evoked several responses from me. First of all I don't know why anyone would be surprised that the majority of Canadians don't believe they can be millionaires. Societally we are taught, in Canada, to be humble; work hard; pay your dues; be grateful for what you have; don't expect more. With this mentality, and please don't get me wrong, I don't think its bad to be humble, it's easy to understand why we as a nation would feel that prosperity is an impossibility.
My second thought was the deep lack of understanding that we as a generation have of how money really works and how to make it work for you. A subject I've spent the better part of the last year learning about.
If only I had known in my 20's what I've now learned in my 30's....but at least I'm now on the right track.
Tuesday, February 15, 2011
CANOE -- CNEWS - Media News: 'Dragon's Den' stars sound off on entrepreneurship
What never fails to baffle me with watching Dragon's Den, is the fact that every pitch that fails, fails because the financials are not solid. Or those presenting don't know their own financials. The show has been out there for awhile kids, WHY are you not apprised of the fact that you are going to look like an idiot and be humiliated if you don't know what numbers you can realistically produce??
98% of Dragon's Deals are predicated on strong financial proof AND predictions, you would think people who call themselves entrepreneurs would understand this small but simple fact.
Best Answering Machine Message Ever
Omigosh!!! This very well may be the VERY best thing I've heard this week...with the exception of my Valentine's Day card...because that WAS the best thing all the way around!!
Monday, February 14, 2011
What little boys do....
A year and a half a go he was more honest about what he wanted to do to me...check out the video of my muchkin's being 'honest' with their mummy....
My Granny
http://www.soscvindia.org/charity/sos_updates/about_founder_tara.php?page=3
Founder Profile (Smt. Tara Ali Baig)
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http://www.spike.com/video/teleflora-faith-hill/3517782
http://www.spike.com/video/teleflora-faith-hill/3517782
Crematorium to heat swimming pool - Weird News - Canoe.ca
Never. Swimming. In. England. EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!
Sunday, February 13, 2011
Beauty of Mathematics
A firestorm of political correctness - Winnipeg Free Press
The points outlined in this piece by the Winnipeg Free Press are not easy to read, but to comprehend the complete injustice that has taken place in Saskatoon is difficult but necessary for us to do.
So much of this case is reminiscent of the lynch mob mentality borne in the Southern States in the late 1800's, something I'm sure we would decry in this day and age, or would we??
I think what angers me most is that instead of the death of a troubled young man being properly investigated and the facts weighed appropriately, that a life was summarily dismissed because of the lack of value that others saw in it. That is wrong, and should have been addressed, and it was, well...sort of. Dissatisfied with the outcome of the investigation, a group, came together to challenge the police on what was a deplorable 'standard operating procedure'. I don't on any level disagree with this being challenged. Wrong is wrong and deserves challenge.
But what transpired from there is something that we should all be ashamed of. Two men were thrown under the proverbial bus. Their character, their livelihood, their entire lives have been tainted by lies, conjecture and a sad, sad system that cannot do the right thing, but instead makes political moves to appease. The practice that they were accused of was something that was commonly known and used in MANY Canadian departments. Instead of dealing with the issue, two men were metaphorically dragged through the town square and strung up for all to see. And even more sadly we did nothing as a community to stop it.
Two men paid a sad price for the department and city that they served as police officers. I've only had the opportunity to meet both Larry Hartwig and Brad Senger in passing, but I know several people who know and speak highly of their character, integrity and humility. They deserved more than what their community gave them. Having both moved on in their lives, they're respected and admired for their courage and the dignity with which they have quietly moved forward with their lives. I admire this courage and strength of character greatly. And I'm deeply apologetic for being one of the many voices who could have spoken up but did not.
Saturday, February 12, 2011
Home is where the 5% loan is
WIKIPEDIA: The word mortgage is a Law French term meaning "dead pledge," apparently meaning that the pledge ends (dies) either when the obligation is fulfilled or the property is taken through foreclosure.[2]
On a 20 year amortization (or 30, or 40 year) you spend more than the first half of that amortization period paying primarily interest only. The fact that the city is offering a ‘low interest’ rate, doesn’t change the simple facts of how a mortgage works.
The Federal Government’s plan of requiring a 20% minimum down payment for mortgages as an attempt to assist Canadians, who currently carry the highest personal debt load in history, to solve financial crisis in families is a step in the right direction. The fact that the City of Saskatoon believes their wisdom is greater than that of Federal leadership, is to be frank, ridiculous and arrogant. Giving a loan for 5% down payments, while they are paying off interest for the first 5 years and aren’t even beginning to pay for the principal, means that the equity built is negligible at best. The low interest rate will only be good for the first 5 years and then the new home owners will be required to pay a ‘regular’ interest rate. If they are already at the end of their financial abilities going into this situation, how are they to afford the new interest rate and thereby increased payments required.
In addition to this, the whole plan is failing to take into consideration property tax and home insurance which are required of all home owners, neither of which are required by renters. The majority of renters also do not pay for full utilities, but have them heavily subsidized if not fully included by landlords. Landlords also take care of things like furnaces that stop working, water heaters that blow up, and toilets that leak. Homeownership is not a divine right but a significant commitment.
As a homeowner, and single parent, who is at the very bottom end of the $45K-$70K annual earning window the City is targeting, I cannot understand why MY taxes are required to subsidize those who are not committed enough to saving a minimum down payment. If they do not have the stamina to save how are they going to have the wherewithal to maintain the significant investment and commitment that homeownership actually is? Maybe Saskatoonian’s need to learn about how to properly financially plan their lives and actually get ahead, as opposed to further exacerbating an already out of control epidemic of creating further debt.
City provides home loans
City provides home loans
Couple plans for retirement, but is saddled with debt
Couple plans for retirement, but is saddled with debt